I'll go a step further. What is the Biblical definition of *HOW* to become husband and wife? I know how our modern society define it, with a marriage license and a certified to do the ceremony. But how does GOD define *when* a person is married? I got I to a discussion some time back with a couple who were living together. They claimed that all they needed to do to be married in the eyes of God was to declare themselves married before God and witnesses. The only wedding I'm aware of in Scripture is the wedding at Cana and that doesn't say what a wedding actually is.